Learn to Sing – Muscle Memory and the Experience of Singing

How do we learn to sing? Well, it comes down to Muscle Memory

Before we get to how to learn to sing, Here is a fab clip from one of my favourite movies, Inception… I’ve set it to start at the relevant bit of the clip:

Remember that explanation of the circular dream creation doodle that Leonardo DiCaprio does, as we’ll come back to it later…

Back to learning to sing

How we learn to sing is an extremely important question. Can anyone learn to sing is also one of THE most asked questions I ever deal with.

Today I want to focus on a certain aspect of that question.

I was teaching a lesson recently with a lovely singer from the local area, and the topic of conversation came around to how quickly they should expect the sound to change. They recognise that when they are in lessons the sound DRAMATICALLY changes, but when they get on stage, they felt like they had slipped back a few places – what is up with that?!

IMPORTANT NOTE:
This is a very valid question and one that needs to get asked – if you don’t feel comfortable asking your teacher why you are where you are, then there’s a problem!

In this singer’s case, he is employed to sing for approximately 8-10 hours a week, if not more. He has also been singing this much every week in the way he always has done for a couple of years at least. What this results in is a level of ingrained muscle memory that we need to strip out and overwrite with new and more *correct* muscle memory. It’s the development of new muscle memory that enables us to depart from the old ways of doing things and become consistent in the new ways of doing things – it’s how we learn.

However, when I am asked this kind of question, it shows (to me) that they need a glimpse of a DRAMATICALLY different “experience” of singing. I don’t mean that in ‘how much experience do they have of singing’, but I mean that in terms of ‘what do they physically experience whilst they are singing’… they really need to experience singing in a way that fundamentally takes them away from what they are used to feeling and hearing, and help them to witness it in a new light. I.e. not just ‘that feels different’, but to recognise how MUCH the feeling differs to their normal experience.

Now this IS what we do with every exercise with the intention of promoting new muscle memory (the only true way of ingraining new behaviour), but sometimes we need a different angle of attack.

Instead of the idea:

Develop new muscle memory –> leads to new experience of singing

We can adopt the approach of:

Give them a new experience of singing –> leads to faster development of muscle memory

It’s circular. Exactly like the analogy in Inception. One side feeds the other, which feeds the other, ad infinitum….

And THAT allows a good voice coach to get RIGHT in the middle of the process and guide it.

I don’t believe you can skip straight to that second approach without a solid level of the first approach, as the tools are far less forgiving on a completely inexperienced or untrained voice, but sometimes what would otherwise be a “quick fix” for a song/difficult passage can provide them with a remarkably different snippet of what the future will hold when they stick at the exercises. that are creating the muscle memory.

The two synergise together in a way that is only fractionally as effective when approached separately.

OK Mark, so what are you trying to say?

I guess what I’m trying to show here is a glimpse into how we have to approach training voices. That it’s not just doing one thing over and over, and it’s not purely about the student receiving from the teacher… it’s about having a dialogue, a two-way street. About having one experience feed another, and to be able to get right into the middle of that to guide the process.

In the above case, by the student raising his concerns and questions, we were able to give him a HUGE shot in the arm for developing his voice.

On top of that, I also wish to point out that even with training it’s normal to see some disparity between what you see in lessons and what you see on stage. It takes time for that muscle memory that is oh-so-controlled in lessons, to manifest in the way you want on stage. It requires both new muscle memory, AND for your body to adopt a new experience of singing to make that the norm.

Uptown Funk – Mark Ronson

Uptown Funk

Another AWESOME funk-laden masterpiece – Uptown Funk – from the master mixer Mark Ronson and legendary voice smith Bruno Mars. Things have been pretty quiet from Bruno in the intervening year since the amazing Superbowl half time show from Mr Mars, so it was great to hear him back.


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It’s so much like James Brown it’s unreal. 100% up to date, but also so retro – I love it. Check it out on repeat like I did

Brett Domino – How to Write a Hit Christmas Song

If you didn’t know how to write a Hit Christmas Song already, then you will now!

Well, he’s done it again! This time he’s taken the magical fairy dust of cynical songwriting styling and applied it to Christmas songs…

It’s not quite up to his first video on writing a hit pop song, but it’s still pretty darn funny, as it sounds like so many ‘attempted’ hit Christmas songs… sleigh-bells. Classic.

From Indian Lakes – Absent Sounds

From Indian Lakes

I came across this band – From Indian lakes – a few months back and I’m really impressed with them. I’d describe them as soft rock, but I’m useless when it comes to sub-genres!

I really like the softer and lighter vocals scattered across the tracks, and I love the soundscape that flows by underneath them. From Indian Lakes is definitely a sound that is growing in popularity at the moment, and well worth checking out if you like the intensity of rock but also want something a bit softer to go along with it.

Check out this video and their whole album, and enjoy!

As an aside, one of the things that troubles me about today’s music is how much we focus on having the SAME sound as everyone else. As a voice coach I get a lot of people in wanting to sound like X, Y or Z, which leads to frustration when they don’t sound EXACTLY like that person.

However the reality is that no two instruments sound alike. As such, you simply can’t expect your own voice to be the same or even in the same ballpark as your favourite singers. That’s not to say that you sound BAD, simply that you will have a beautiful but different tone once a certain amount of training has been undergone.

What I love about this growing genre is that it celebrates a desire (in my opinion) to make music irrespective of whether an existing vocal sound already subsists in the audiosphere. From Indian Lakes has relatively light vocals. They are not jamming their voices as hard as they can ala hard rock, Zeppelin/Cornell style vocals. They are also not singing super low or dark ala Vedder or the like. Equally so, despite singing soft they are not going for the crooner sound ala Michael Buble. Instead there’s a sound that’s wholly different, so we have no preconceived notion of what they should or should not sound like.

Now, with today’s music being what it is, this could easily lead to us dismissing such music. However I feel they’ve managed to write something that grabs your ear and makes you want to pay attention to the whole song. This is critical to good artistry, and something I deeply respect.

I hope that’s made you think a little more deeply about songwriting and what you hear on the radio today. Til next time! Enjoy!

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Brett Domino How to Write a Hit Pop Song

Those of you who are in for lessons regularly know about my love for a songwriting guru called Ralph Murphy, but I’m also a big fan of Brett Domino and his hilarious satire on hit songwriting.

While this is not quite the same sort of intellectual level of that sort of songwriting advice, this video by Brett on ‘How to Write a Hit Pop Song’ is VERY funny.. and remarkably catchy… maybe it says something about the pop industry?

Check it out and enjoy!

Brett Domino How to Write a Hit Pop Song

Success Story: Bethan

It’s been another mad week here at the studio, with people in every day and some other crazy things kicking off. I hope you’re all managing to stave off those coldy coughs that seem to be going round!

This week I was working with a lovely singer called Bethan, and the success she experienced in a very particular area of her voice was something I wanted to share with all of you. Continue reading “Success Story: Bethan”

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